The relationship between Marilyn Monroe and James Haspiel stands as one of the most unique and enduring stories in Hollywood history, transitioning from a teenage fan’s infatuation into an eight-year-long trusted friendship. Haspiel met Monroe in September 1954 when he was just 15 years old during the New York City filming of The Seven Year Itch. After boldly asking her for a kiss on the cheek, he began documenting her life, eventually capturing some of the most candid, human moments of the global icon.
Haspiel first encountered Marilyn during her famous skirt-blowing scene in New York. Encouraged by her to get a camera, he bought a $5 Brownie Hawkeye and began capturing unposed, raw photographs of her across Manhattan. Unlike standard autograph hunters, Haspiel and a small circle of fans (often associated with the “Monroe Six”) treated her with genuine decency. Recognizing this, Monroe began inviting him into her inner circle—sharing taxi rides, running casual errands to drugstores, and inviting him into her apartment.
In a famous memory shared by Haspiel, Marilyn invited him into a taxi and called him “Jimmy.” When he realized he had never actually introduced himself, he asked how she knew his name. She responded, “I called you Jimmy. Your name is James Robert Haspiel,” even spelling out his last name, which she had quietly researched from others. On his 21st birthday in February 1959, Marilyn gave him a kiss, pulled back to leave a distinct lip print, squeezed his waist, and jokingly told him, “Jimmy, I remember when you were 17 sweet.”
Through his books, such as Marilyn: The Ultimate Look at the Legend, and home movie footage, Haspiel spent decades protecting Monroe’s legacy and honoring her humanity over her sexualized persona. He recalled her as a “gentle soul” who would venture into the Bowery District completely unrecognized to anonymously hand out money to the unhoused, or pay neighborhood boys to free trapped pigeons from local parks.
Haspiel remained a fixture in her life through her major milestones, observing her marriages and subsequent divorces with Joe DiMaggio and Arthur Miller, until he saw her for the final time in the summer of 1962, just two and a half months before her tragic death.



































