Born in 1922 in Humenné, Slovakia, Helena was the daughter of a Jewish cantor and grew up with a deep love for singing. In March 1942, she was forced onto the very first mass transport of Slovakian Jewish women to Auschwitz. The women had been lied to, promised profitable work abroad, but were instead sold as slave labor.
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| Helena Citrónová |
Initially assigned to brutal manual labor shifting heavy rubble, Helena's life changed when she was transferred to work in “Kanada,” the massive warehouse barracks where the personal belongings of those murdered in the gas chambers were sorted.
On her first day in the warehouse, the Kapo (prisoner overseer) asked if anyone could sing to mark the birthday of one of the SS guards overseeing the unit. Terrified and weeping, knowing that displeasing the guards meant death, 20-year-old Helena stepped forward. She sang the only German song she knew: “Liebe war es nie” (“It Was Never Love” or “Love It Was Not”).
The guard celebrating his birthday was Franz Wunsch, a 20-year-old Austrian who had volunteered for the SS as a teenager. He was completely captivated by her voice and her beauty. He ordered that she remain permanently assigned to the indoor Kanada warehouse, effectively sparing her from the lethal outdoor labor commandos.
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| Franz Wunsch |
Wunsch began secretly leaving Helena gifts of food, warm clothing, and love letters. Helena’s initial reaction was pure hatred and disgust: “I thought I’d rather be dead than be involved with an SS man,” she recalled years later. “For a long time afterwards there was just hatred. I couldn’t even look at him.”
Yet, in a place where death was the default, Wunsch’s obsession manifested as a lifeline. When Helena contracted typhus, typically a death sentence in the camp, Wunsch hid her, brought her extra medicine and food, and nursed her back to health.
Over the next two years, the nature of their relationship remained strictly non-physical, confined to whispered conversations, fleeting glances, and smuggled notes. Under the Nazi Rassenschande (race defilement) laws, any sexual relations between an Aryan and a Jewish prisoner were strictly forbidden and carried a penalty of death or imprisonment for the SS officer.
The dynamic between Helena and Wunsch changed permanently in October 1944. Helena’s older sister, Róza, arrived at Auschwitz on a transport along with her husband and two young children. They were instantly selected to go directly to the gas chambers.
Desperate, Helena managed to slide a note to Wunsch, begging him to save them. Wunsch immediately ran to the gas chamber selection area. Confronting Helena under the guise of “punishing” her for breaking curfew, he demanded to know her sister’s name. Wunsch was able to physically pull Róza out of the line, claiming she was needed to work in the Kanada warehouse. However, his authority only went so far. He could not save Róza’s children or her husband.
While Róza survived the war alongside Helena, the agonizing loss of her children left a lifelong scar. Róza struggled to forgive Helena for the terrible reality of how her life was bought at the cost of her children’s. Yet, for Helena, this was the moment her feelings toward Wunsch shifted from survivalist tolerance to genuine gratitude and complex affection.
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| Helena Citrónová (left) with her sister Róza (right) and Róza’s daughter before the Holocaust. |
In January 1945, as the Soviet Army closed in on Auschwitz, Wunsch found Helena one last time. He gave her and Róza heavy, fur-lined boots and warm socks to survive the impending death march, along with a note that read, “I loved you very much.” Helena and Róza survived the march and were liberated. They eventually immigrated to Israel to rebuild their lives. Wunsch searched for Helena for years through the Red Cross, writing to her, but she refused to respond, wanting only to bury her past.
The story did not end there. In 1972, Franz Wunsch was arrested and put on trial in Vienna for his war crimes at Auschwitz. While Wunsch had protected Helena and was noted by other survivors to have behaved less brutally after falling in love with her, he was also a committed SS officer who had actively participated in mass selections at the train ramps and operated the gas chambers. Wunsch’s wife tracked Helena down in Israel, begging her to testify. Helena flew to Vienna to take the stand.
During the trial, Helena did not look Wunsch in the eye. She delivered a highly nuanced testimony, refusing to sugarcoat his role in the machinery of the death camp, while also testifying to the fact that he had saved her life, her sister’s life, and had thrown food to other prisoners. Ultimately, Wunsch was acquitted, largely due to the statute of limitations on many of the charges in Austria at the time.
Helena Citrónová passed away in Tel Aviv in 2007 at the age of 84. Her story remains one of the most haunting examples of the “grey zones” of human survival in the face of absolute evil. It was beautifully documented in the 2020 Israeli documentary film Love It Was Not, which explores the deep psychological weight both sisters carried for the rest of their lives.